Shopping with AMD

Today, I popped into Marks & Spencer’s for three items – strawberries, fresh cream and a bottle of dry martini. (There are some perks attached to being on a low carb high fat diet). I was wearing my ‘visually impaired’ badge and I know exactly where all three items are kept, so I was quite confident of managing on my own.
Strawberries, no problem.
Fresh cream, no problem.
Dry martini – this is where things began to fall apart a bit. I walked up and down both sides of the aisle containing wines and spirits, etc. but no familiar green bottle.

I approached the only other person in the aisle, a man giving close attention to the spirits, and asked for his help. As always, help was given freely and generously. Together, we patrolled up and down the two sides of aisle, again with no success. I asked him if he would mind helping me further and again, he said, “Of course.”
As there was no martini, I determined on a small bottle of champagne, so my new friend undertook the job of reading the labels to me. It boiled down to a choice of three – champagne, prosecco and something he called cava. I professed my ignorance as to what cava might be and spent a very instructive and entertaining ten minutes as he explained the difference between the three options available to me. I settled on the champagne (of course!) and, after thanking him profusely, I made my way to the self checkout.
Here I encountered another problem. Since my last visit to this particular branch of Marks & Spencer Food Hall, the tills had been changed and I couldn’t decipher the screen. So, I made another new friend of one of the ever-helpful Marks & Spencer employees. She guided me through the locations of the start, scan, finish and contactless icons. So, after a few moments, I had a new skill and will be able to check out on my own.
I left the shop feeling very heartened. I’d encountered obstacles and overcome them with the help of two very kind people and held on to a small measure of my independence.

New beginnings (inc. audio)

Well, here it is, the first post on my re-vamped website, and what better way to start than with a present. This year has been a tough one so far for me and my family but when life gives you lemons, what do you do? Not make lemonade, that’s for sure, but a slice or two in a gin and tonic hits the spot and we soldier on.
This chapter from Ashes on the Tongue is narrated by Morgan Ayre, a native of Northern Ireland, and I think her distinctive brogue is perfect for Fen’s story. So, whether your tipple is the aforesaid gin and tonic or a cup of coffee, take a break and lose yourself in the Ireland of yesterday year.

ASHES ON THE TONGUE, THE STAIN OF SILENCE and BURDEN OF FREEDOM
In 1950s Northern Ireland, two families are connected by a history steeped in secrecy, violence and betrayal.Ruby and Victor Crozier are Protestants, with one daughter, Fen, still at home. When Victor forces Fen out of school and into work in a linen mill, she begins to learn about the darkness in her family’s history.
Rose and Dermot Quinn are Roman Catholics and parents of fifteen children. Their eldest son, John Joe, has just come home from England where he works and sends home much needed money.
When Fen and John Joe unwittingly witness an atrocity, they are drawn into a web of danger emanating not only from within their own homes but also from the violent campaign for a unified Ireland. In fear of reprisals, they each make decisions which will have far-reaching consequences and change their young lives forever.